Are you wondering if he’s into you or not? Are you looking for signs that he’s just not that into you? If so, this blog post is for you! We’ll go over some of the most common signs that a guy isn’t interested in you, and how to move on if it turns out he isn’t.
1. He Makes You Wait
He may be playing it cool, especially in the initial stages of a relationship. Signs that your partner is not into you can include making you wait for him, being inconsistently responsive to messages or ignoring them altogether, and not making time for you. It might feel like he’s not ready for a relationship right now, but how do you know? If you’re constantly making dinner plans or coaxing him to go out with you, it might be time to say goodbye.
2. He Is Not Interested in Knowing You
2. He Is Not Interested in Knowing You: If the guy tells you one excuse or shows zero desire to get to know you, then it is likely that he is no longer interested in being with you. He used to pay attention to the small details and showed authentic empathy when you talked about your problems, but now he doesn’t seem to be as invested in getting to know you. Additionally, if he never contacts you first or takes a long time to reply to your texts, then it’s safe to say that he has lost interest.
3. He Doesn’t Make Time for You
He’s not making time for you, and it’s becoming increasingly apparent. You’ve noticed that he’s constantly busy with work, catching up with friends, or going to the gym. And in all of this, he doesn’t seem to have much time for you. It’s hard to tell whether he’s just really busy, or if he has lost interest in you. All you know is that it’s becoming increasingly difficult to connect with him and that your relationship is no longer a priority for him.
4. He Isn’t the First One to Contact You
If the guy you like never reaches out first, it’s definitely a sign that he’s not into you. He might text you back eventually but he won’t take the initiative and start conversations. If you’re the one who has to always initiate contact, it’s a major red flag that he’s not interested. This can be especially frustrating if you’ve been waiting for him to make the first move for a while now and it doesn’t seem like it’s ever going to happen.
5. It Takes Ages for Him to Reply to Your Texts
When a guy does not respond to your texts or takes a long time to reply, it could be a sign that he’s not interested. Replying within seconds or a few minutes means that he is interested in you, whereas if it takes hours or days for him to reply, it could be an indication that he’s just not that into you. Everyone’s busy, but if a guy cares about you, he’ll make time for you and be the first one to contact you. If your conversations lack depth and he avoids talking about the future, it may be time to accept that he’s not into you.
6. He Won’t Connect More Than Twice a Week
One of the clear signs that he’s not interested in having a relationship with you is that he’s distracted and disengaged when you’re together. If after three months, he’s not bringing you to meet any friends or family, it’s a sign that your relationship is not moving in the right direction. He won’t connect (actually see you) more than twice a week. Of all the signs he’s not into you, this is probably the biggest. Yet remember, if you and your almost-partner have been dating once a week for two months or more, then beware. Regardless of how busy they are, if things were going well, they would make time for you.
7. You’re Just Not a Priority Anymore
It may seem like he’s not invested in the relationship, but it could also be that you’re just not a priority anymore. Unfortunately, if he’s not putting any effort into special occasions or making time for you, then it’s likely that he just doesn’t find you as important. If he’s not taking the initiative to contact you and only responds to your messages days later, it’s clear that this is a one-sided relationship and you’re unfortunately more interested in this guy than he is with you. Talk to him and be honest about your feelings so you can both move forward.
8. He’s Not Invested in Your Relationship
He’s Not Invested in Your Relationship
It can be difficult to tell if someone is not interested in pursuing a relationship with you. If the man you’re dating calls you only when he wants something from you, it’s a sign that he really doesn’t want to commit. He may also be avoiding talking about the future or becoming more emotionally connected with you. If he’s cancelling plans at the last minute or avoiding connecting more than twice a week, it’s likely he’s not as invested in your relationship as you are. It’s important to take note of these behaviors and act accordingly if it doesn’t seem like he’s serious about taking things further.
9. He Cancels Plans At the Last Minute
When a guy cancels at the last minute, it could be a sign that he’s not into you. This is especially true if it happens often and he does not make an effort to reschedule. If a guy isn’t interested in getting to know you better, and he doesn’t make time for you in his life, then it’s unlikely that he is truly invested in the relationship. If he is always canceling plans at the last minute, or if it takes him ages to get back to your texts, then it’s time to face the facts: he’s just not that into you.
10. He Avoids Talking About the Future
9. He Cancels Plans At the Last Minute
It’s not uncommon for someone who’s not interested in a relationship to avoid making long-term plans and commitments. If he’s canceling plans at the last minute or always making excuses, this could be a sign that he’s not into you. He may be hot and cold, and you might feel like you’re being pulled back and forth. These are all signs that he’s not into you and is not invested in the relationship.
